tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7610437523837809346.post341767175718559798..comments2023-10-07T17:15:48.835+08:00Comments on A little something.. From Claire: Thnks Fr Th MmrsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7610437523837809346.post-13734401813344684722008-07-15T18:17:00.000+08:002008-07-15T18:17:00.000+08:00Hi Anonymous,Thanks for your comments.. I'm not sp...Hi Anonymous,<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your comments.. I'm not spiteful or bitter.. Maybe a little a week ago, but I'm feeling better... Maybe the song is not right in every lyrics.. Especially those you mentioned.. <BR/><BR/>But I just want to Thank Dave for the memories because he has given me alot of good memoris..<BR/><BR/>I'm not changing only because of him, and neither am I changing to have a perfect personality.. But I'm changing to be a better me.. I'm not going to be a gentle and demure girl either becasude that is definitely impossible for me.. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for your comments and I will take a part of it.. But situations between us are kind of complicated and we shall just let things rest for the time being.. Its nice to know you are not on my side too.. Because the full story is hard to explain..Lee Han Ying aka Clairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17567896559913137060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7610437523837809346.post-56961021838216675632008-07-15T03:58:00.000+08:002008-07-15T03:58:00.000+08:00Hi Claire,Just want to be anonymous here cause "I'...Hi Claire,<BR/><BR/>Just want to be anonymous here cause "I'm one of those friends that you are sensitive to comments" , just want to leave a msg on your blog about this post.<BR/><BR/>you can don't approve this comment to be published if you feel it's too offensive or if you want to keep it private.<BR/><BR/>Reading your post, i feel that you feel very bitter about Dave breaking up with you. The post started about how you miss him, the end it started becoming spiteful and you want to prove him wrong. I'm not even sure what the lyrics for "thks fr th mmrs" mean even when i listen to it a lot of times. <BR/><BR/>Bend and break?, "Who does he think he is?", "He tastes like you only sweeter"? Who broke up with who now? I'm really confused. It's a real song expressing hate. Clearly its very contradictory.<BR/><BR/>You are who you are. You can try to change it, we can't totally reprogram ourselves to be that "Perfect personality", and there is a good reason not to ---- Despite how good or how friendly your are, some people will still not like you. Always has and always will be. Instead of getting someone to conform to you and vice versa, you're better off finding someone more compatible from the get-go.<BR/><BR/>It's hard trying to change people, and you might not like the end result if they do change. How do you intend to change someone who is vocal and very extrovert into someone who is gentle and demure?<BR/><BR/>Through past relationships people have an idea of what they really want out of it. Maybe that's what Dave realized what he wants in a relationship, a person that's less vocal and extroverted. And you realized you need someone who can be supportive at all times, regardless what you do.<BR/><BR/>Ask yourself why are you changing, is there really a need to change? Both of you will find someone better just by being the way you are.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com